My THOUGHTS AND EXPERIENCE.

Good morning friends,
Hope you are having a great day! I wish I could say the same. Though I am vacationing at Oman with my family, stress is in search of me. After 14 long years of exile from office atmosphere , and catching up with freelance writing, I am desperately in need of a job.
Yes, unfortunately I realized that I had to get back to doing B.Ed and have two years of work experience before I could even think of getting one and I am 42. Someone kindly reminded me that I had the habit of job hopping and should go back to the living hell and search for a job there.
I wish to express my views on discouraging behavior like these:
- When someone commits a mistake and later repents for his actions, people generally find it difficult to accept that he or she could mend his or her ways. Why is it so? Can’t we learn from our past mistakes and turn over a new leaf? The answer is yes, we can but the weird human society has a bad habit of judging people, based on their actions and refuse to acknowledge that anyone could change. This is because many people find it very difficult to change their behavior, in the first place. My sincere request to all is never judge people based on the same parameters.
- Some people find great pleasure in reminding others of their horrible past when they are trying to start a new life. I don’t understand why humans can’t tolerate others’ happiness. Tv serials are responsible for corrupting the minds of public. These serials offer free training to hatch conspiracies against and create obstacles for people in their path of progress.
- Parents, often, force their children to follow their dream profession. They use emotional blackmail to compel them to pursue a career of their choice instead of their children.
- Forwarding religious messages that promote hatred, intolerance towards other religions and flare communal violence on any form of Social Media.
- People love to criticize and make fun of others but when they are the objects of ridicule, they get offended easily and resort to filing a defamation suit.
These are just the tip of the iceberg. I am not against entire humanity but when I see this happening everywhere, it hurts a lot. And when I come back to the world of blogging, I find that there are nicer people in the world than those who have negative mindset and always criticize and make fun of others.
Yes, my dear friends, all of you are blessed with the heart of gold. After reading your sweet encouraging comments full of optimism, I have come to a conclusion, simply find the good in everyone and the world will be a beautiful place.
Thank you so much for taking your precious to visit my website. Hope you enjoyed reading my blogs. ππ
I hope you find a job soon. Youβre right about religious WhatsApp forwards, though.
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Hi Aparna π. Don’t loose your hope. Go ahead with self confidence and avoid arguments just because of your better health and daily start your day with prayer π
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Dearest Aparna,
I have read all your reflections and I tell you that I agree with everything you say. Unfortunately humanity is not always capable of accepting and valuing others. We should be able to not care about the judgment of others, but it’s something that , having arrived at my age. now I can do easily, but which i was incapable of when I was younger and especially when I had to accept the opinions of others to be able to find or keep a job
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I am so sorry to hear this but I can tell you that I completely understand your troubles.
I am also in a similar, yet different, situation and especially in workforce, people judge you on the basis of your job history. If it doesn’t align with their ideals, then they believe that you are not a good candidate, no matter how great your experience is.
But, you should believe in yourself and keep applying. Things will work out for the better!
All the very best π
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Thank you so much, dear. π₯°π₯°β€β€β€
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Thank you so much, dear Luisa. I absolutely agree with you. πππβ€β€β€β€ππ
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Thank you so much, dear. β€β€β€πππ
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You’re most welcome ππΉ
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Your note at the end is what all tge route to your success Ma’am. Go ahead, you have the powers to grab your wishes to be true. Wish you the best in everything you do. Loves πππβ€
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Sending love and hugs, faith and courage to you Dearest Aparna! π
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Thank you so much, dearest Cindy. I feel sooo happy with your sweet words . Sending lots of love and hugs to you. β€β€β€π₯°π₯°π₯°πππ
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You’re so very welcome my friend!!! I’m happy to know that and hugs and love to you too! β£οΈπ€π
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